06:22 AM EDT 10/16/2013
Originally posted 01/31/2013 08:30AM
A friend, a confidante, a shoulder to cry on. Someone who brought a welcome dose of levity when things got heavy.
Mary O'Connor was many things to Kendra Wilkinson.
Now, the former star of The Girls Next Door has written down her fond memories of Playboy founder Hugh Hefner's longtime secretary – who died last weekend – in a heartfelt post on her website.
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