"He looked like himself. He looked like he just was laying there sleeping," says David Fossett, 50, a cousin of Jackson's who grew up with him and still lives in Jackson's hometown of Gary, Ind. "He looked peaceful."
Relatives gathered around the casket, "talked to each other and cried" during the viewing on Monday night, Fossett tells PEOPLE. Jackson's parents, Katherine and Joe Jackson, were not among those gathered, but after the viewing, mourners went back to the Jackson home in Encino.
"It was a somber mood," Fossett says. "Even though he's this big entertainer, he's still our family."
Family ReminiscesBut there was some levity as well as relatives reminisced. Fossett said he recalled for the group when Jackson, family and friends descended on Disneyland for the grand opening of the Captain EO movie, which starred Jackson. He also talked about the time in 1972 when Michael and the rest of Jackson 5 returned to Gary to perform at West Side High School.
Fossett and others stayed the night. Tuesday morning, the family had a quick breakfast and then got into their vehicles for the convoy to the 30- to 40-minute private service. About 70 relatives gathered at Forest Lawn, where Jackson's cousin Wendell Hawkins conducted a Jehovah's Witness service, according to Fossett and another cousin, Myron Hawkins, who is Wendell Hawkins' brother.
Jehovah's Witness CeremonyFossett, who is not a Jehovah's Witness, describes the service as "spoken in a way that their belief is that he [God] is going to be back on this earth." Wendell Hawkins "addressed guests and said he was glad that his [Michael's] life was connected with Jehovah." During the service, John 3:16 was read, the Biblical passage that speaks to God so loving the world that he gave his only son, and Ecclesiastes 9:5, which refers to the living knowing they will die, but the dead being conscious of nothing.
Jackson's three children, Paris, 11, Prince Michael I, 12, and Prince Michael II, 7, were crying during the service. "They lost their father," Fossett says. "They were sad." But the kids were comforting each other, holding each other's hands and hugging, and in turn were being supported by family, he says. "All of us were comforting each other."
Mourners were handed lyrics to a song entitled "Life Without End/At Last" and the group sang it together a cappella.
During the private service, Jackson's elaborate, gold casket was closed, with a spray of flowers on top, the same ones as seen at the public memorial service at the Staples Center.