"One of the most extreme things I've done is be extremely in love," says the actor-rapper, 37, who stars in Terminator Salvation. "It was just the whole lifestyle I chose; I sat down and helped plant a garden with her! That went a little too far for me. But I was trying to be in a balanced relationship and do some of the things that she would enjoy, too. Then afterward you think, 'Dang – did I do all that?' "